This is the world, but not as we know it


Strange times we’re living in. Cities in lock down, beaches closed, gatherings cancelled, jobs lost, people isolating in their homes. In the supermarket this morning, there were orange crosses on the floor at the checkouts to remind us not to get too close to each other.

I am being careful, following the instructions we’re given re hand washing, distancing etc. I am not at high risk. I am healthy, have no underlying heart or lung conditions, am not old (well, not very, anyway).  And yet, as time goes on, I feel myself becoming more anxious. There is so much conflicting information out there about what to do and what not to do, attitudes that range from “she’ll be right, mate,” to, “I’m never going out again because I might die.”

Somewhere in the middle, there is sanity. And in these weird days ahead, here’s how I’m going to try and keep mine!

Do yoga. Even fifteen minutes a day. A few sun salutes, a couple of standing poses. A headstand. Some breathing.

Get out into greenery. I can still go to the park, walk the dogs, watch the swans on the pond.

Eat well. I haven’t stockpiled. I am trying to shop at the local shops, a little each day,  rather than the big supermarkets, because they are the businesses that need us to spend our dollars at the moment.

Check in on elderly relatives and neighbours.

Read books.

Write books. I have to admit, writing is rather slow at the moment. I can’t settle to it with all this other stuff going on.

Meditate. I’ve dowloaded an app. Now I have to remember to sit and do it! Then maybe I’ll calm down enough to write.

Watch movies. I watched The Secret History the other night. I loved the book and the film was good (I like Eric Bana!)

Stay in touch with friends and family by social media, phone, Skype or any other way possible.

I’m going to start knitting. Seems like a good opportunity to learn a new skill!

Most of all, though, I’m going to remind myself that one day, this will all be over.

Stay, well, stay sane, stay in touch.



New beginnings


It’s a red letter day. Or, at least, 28th March was. That was the day I came up with the idea for a new book. Not so much an idea really, as a theme.

So for the past two weeks I’ve been thinking, reading, googling, daydreaming, staring into space, failing to notice when people are talking to me, letting the housework go, filing my notebook with ideas, information, questions. I have decided to date all my research and notes so that I can answer when people ask me how long it takes to write a book.

I don’t expect to start writing the actual book for a few more weeks. This stage of the process is too exciting and important to rush. Even in two weeks, the story outline has changed as I ‘cook’ characters and write profiles for them, consider their hopes and dreams, the obstacles they will encounter as they try to fulfil them, how they will interact with each other and the overall theme of the book.

I have ordered books and tracked down out of print copies of others I need. My keyboard is hot with the amount of googling I’ve been doing. I have pages of questions still to be answered and ideas to be followed up.

I am considering structure; I know I have to have three generations of one family, with someone from each telling their story, but where to leave one and start the next?

And Point of View – three first person POVs, or close third, or a mixture? I suspect I will try both and see which suits the narrative better.

I feel I’m in a rush, but know I have to take it slowly. If I start writing too soon with ill-formed ideas the process will take longer, I will have to do more rewrites.

When I was learning to dive, my instructor told me that the first rule of scuba diving was, ‘Plan the dive and dive the plan.’ I will write it on a post-it note and stick it to my computer to remind me of the importance of having an outline and a goal. As with diving, I don’t know what I’ll find along the way, and I may have to respond to unforeseen circumstances, but if I know where to start, where I need to end up, and how much oxygen I’ve got, I should be OK!

Wish me luck.

On the Twisted Path


Writing a book can be likened to taking a journey. You set out on a sunny day, full of hope and excitement, and if you’re lucky, the sun keeps shining and the path is easy to follow and runs straight and true.

More often, however, the sun gets occluded by clouds and heavy rain has you running for cover, ducking into a doorway to keep dry as you watch the path you were taking turn into a quagmire. It turns out that the cover you sought doesn’t actually keep that rain out, and soon it’s running down your back in cold rivulets and you start to shiver.

Then the sun comes out again, and you step out onto the path and into mud up to your ankles. Undeterred – the sun is shining, after all – you keep on. The going is slow, every step hindered by the squelching mud, but at least you’re going forward. Until you come to a fork in the road that wasn’t marked on the map. One way leads into a forest, the sun streaming down through the trees creating an interesting interplay of light and shadow. The other way stretches out across a barren plain with rocky, lichen-covered boulders here and there. The forest looks more inviting, but you think about the fairy stories about big bad wolves and lost children, so you take the other path.

Soon, you’re thirsty, tired and getting sunburnt. There is no shade, and the plain seems to stretch for miles in every direction. You wish you’d taken the forest path, for all it’s clichés and overblown characters. Too late. You’re on your own, and you just have to keep putting one foot in front of the other and hope that you get to the end, wherever that might be.

I’m currently in the middle of that plain. All around me are interesting looking boulders, some bigger than others, but boulders nonetheless. I scratch away at the lichen on one of them and look at what’s underneath. It’s rock. Same with the next, and the next. Rock, rock and more rock. What do I expect? Well, I was hoping for inspiration. A magical sign showing me the way to the end of the journey or a diamond that would dazzle and enchant me –  something that I could take with me to show the world and say, “Hey, look what I found – let me tell you the story of where and how and why and when… all the way to THE END.”

But here I am, still on the plain, wandering from boulder to boulder, scratching away.  I don’t believe in magic, and these are not the kind of rocks that diamonds are found in. I will have to keep wandering until I find my own way to the edge of the plain, to the end of the story.


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On connectedness


Well, several, if not dozens, of Thursdays have gone past, each one marked by the chirruping of my phone reminding me to write a blog post. Each one ignored. Until today!

Yesterday evening I was at a party hosted by my agent. Lovely gathering of authors, reviewers and friends. I got chatting to a woman who said she had read my blog. Not only read it, but loved it. She said that in writing about the every day things, I came through as witty and interesting. She likened me to Bridget Jones and her diaries!

I was flattered – after all, Bridget Jones is a household name. But afterwards, I wondered if there were any similarities between us, and realised that there are few. Unlike BJ I have been married to the same person for twenty eight years, and I know without a shadow of doubt the parentage of my children. I do not have a glamorous job in the media (although I have enjoyed the radio interviews I’ve done and would happily do more), I don’t drink as much as BJ and have never turned up at a party dressed as a Bunny Girl (although I do like a good fancy dress party as much as the next person).

There are some similarities, however. Like BJ, I have a group of friends with whom I can let my hair down, who I can count on in a crisis, who can male me laugh. We’ve looked after each others’ children, listened without judgement to each others’ concerns, helped each other out in ways too numerous to mention. While they haven’t had to rescue me from singledom and heartbreak in a small green mini, I know they would if I were in that situation, as I would for them. At the risk of sounding mawkish, I am very grateful for my friends.

I have been doing an online course these last few months called Midwifing Death. Cheery stuff, I hear you say. Well, actually, it is in some ways. The idea of helping someone who is dying, and their family, through the last days, is uplifting as well as challenging. I don’t want to go into all that here, though. What I want to point out is that it has made me think about death and dying, but more importantly, it has made me think about living. And what I have come to realise is that people is what it’s all about. In the end, no-one, least of all me, is going to worry about what I’ve achieved, how much money I’ve made, where I lived. They, and I, will be more concerned with who I’ve connected with over the course of my life – family, friends, colleagues, clients, students, readers. And that means making and maintaining those friendships and connections now. Enjoying the company of the people I love while I can. Taking pleasure in the small things – the shared glass of wine at the end of the day, a walk on the beach, sharing a joke, a chat on the phone.

So that’s it really. People are what make my world go round. And the dogs, who are always pleased to see me!

Have a happy festive season, however and whatever you celebrate.

This damn book!


If you read my last post, you’ll know that I was having trouble finding the correct beginning to my latest novel. It has been challenging, to say the least. But, as Stephen King says when asked how he writes, “I just out one word after another.” With this advice in mind, I kept going. I still don’t know if I’ve found the right beginning, but I realise that I might not know that until I get to the end. Another insight from Stephen King is that he writes first drafts very quickly and then spends a lot of time shaping and editing. We don’t write in the same genre – his books are too scary for me to read – but he is a master craftsman, and so I am trotting along.

So, keep writing, I said to myself. See what happens, I added, trying to sound more confident than I felt. There are plotters and there are pansters – those who start writing and see where they get to. I’m usually the latter, but this book was plotted out from beginning to end. I even thought I had the last line written.

Not so. This week I have discovered that not only can I not find the beginning, but the outline I had is but a sub plot. Another, more interesting, and certainly more pressing, theme has emerged and needs to be addressed.

There were moments there when I thought, “No. I’m in charge here. You characters are made up, you only exist in my head, and you will do what I say.” Those moments were short. The twist that one of the characters threw at me is intriguing and will make a great story if I handle it well – or leave my characters to lead the way.

It’s a trust issue. Like that exercise where you close your eyes and fall back into the waiting arms of your friends, I now have to keep writing and trust fictitious people to take their story and run with it. My fingers will be on the keypad, but their ideas will guide the outcome.

Wish me luck – I might fall!


On finding the beginning


When reading a book, it is easy to start in the right place. You open the book to the first page and start from there (unless you’re one of those people who reads the last page first – naughty, naughty!) But for the writer, finding that beginning may have taken several attempts.

I have just started writing the first draft of a book I have been ‘cooking’ for a couple of years. I have it all plotted out, which is unusual for me, I usually develop a character or two and see where they take me. This book, however, has been difficult from the start. I couldn’t find the right structure for it, although I knew it had to be in the first person point of view. Then the question was, set it in the past or the present? I decided on the present.

I wrote a few sentences – the beginning of the book, or so I thought. They were, if I say so myself, brilliant sentences – descriptive, poetic, intriguing. And wrong. They weren’t in my character’s voice and they weren’t the right way to start the book.

I tried again. Some more sentences. This time the voice sounded more like the character I had in mind, but only if she lived at the turn of the nineteenth century. Again, a voice issue. I sat and thought about my protagonist and all she was going to go through in this book. I thought about the character profile I had written for her (six pages long) and built a stronger picture of her in my mind.

I started again. And this time, I had nailed her voice. I kept going, feeling, if I’m honest, a little smug. I’m on my way, I thought. That wasn’t so hard, was it? Ten thousand words on, I had introduced more characters and set the scene, my protagonist was struggling with her inner turmoil nicely and being misunderstood by those around her. All good stuff.

Then I decided to read from the beginning for flow and continuity. And I was hit between the eyes by the fact that I still had the wrong beginning! I had started the story too far back and taken too long to get to the point. I don’t think a book has to start with a big action scene, but it does have to start at its logical beginning, not in some beautifully written back story. That can come in later if necessary, but the protagonist needs to find herself in the thick of the rising tension, not trudging towards it in the hope that at some stage in the not too distant future, she’ll get there!

So, I’m back to the drawing board.


More Out Takes: Dom’s Reply


Last time I posted a letter from Winsome to her friend, Dom back in the UK. Here is his first one to her, to give a flavour of their relationship. The letters were a way of keeping the reader up to date with both of their lives when they were apart, but I’ve always thought there’s something romantic about writing actual letters; real letters on paper written with a pen. I don’t do it nearly enough in my life, so I enjoyed letting Winsome and Dom deepen their relationship this way. Here it is…


I got your letter today. It only took a week – much quicker than I thought it would be.

I’m sorry to hear that your father isn’t well. Do you think that now you are home, he’ll improve? And your mother? You always made me feel better when you were around, so I imagine you have that effect on them too.

I try very hard to imagine you in Uganda, but it isn’t easy. I am looking at the photo you left for me – the one of you and your family outside the house the day Moses left for University. It conjures the languid feeling of heat and flies, of long hot days and longer hotter nights, punctuated by the buzz of a thousand mosquitoes intent on drinking everyone dry.! I look at you – what were you then – 13? and I think of the woman you have become, of all that you’ve been through, and I find myself wishing that I could put the clock back and stop it all from happening. But then, I would never have met you, and that would be my loss.

My god – what’s happening to me? This letter writing business is making me all maudlin. I promised myself that my letters would be upbeat and funny, full of little anecdotes to keep you amused, perhaps an antidote to what’s going on for you over there.

So… Mum is well but missing you. She loved having you staying with her. I think she thrives on company and finds being on her own lonely. She’s talking about getting a dog! Not much of a replacement for you, but better than nothing, or so she says. I took her out to dinner last night. We went to that little Indian on the High street, you know, the one where they say that the korma is mild, and it takes the back of your throat off. One day if I’m feeling suicidal, I’ll try the vindaloo!

Work’s OK. My boss actually praised me the other day for coming up with the design that won the tender for the hotel in Devon. As if Torquay needs any more hotels. Still, it’s work for us, and it’ll mean trips to Devon. In the school holidays I might take Mum with me if she wants to come for a breath of sea air.

So, that’s about it for now. I need to improve my letter writing skills; I have veered from melancholy to inane in this one. I was going to apologise for it not being very long, but I suspect that you’re quite glad you don’t have to read more.

I must say, though, that I miss you and our long chats. London seems rather boring these days, without you here. Please write again soon.

Dom xx


So, that was Dom’s first letter. Interested to read more?

Next time.


An out take from Never Laugh at Shadows


In keeping with my last post, I have decided to put up some out takes from my novels. When I was writing Never Laugh at Shadows, the protagonist, Winsome, went home to Uganda, having fallen in love with an English man. I included several letters between them as a way of keeping the story moving forward and the reader knowing what both were up to. Having written these letters, I decided that it didn’t work after all, so I took them out. 16,000 words! So here are some of them…

Winsome put her pen down and supported her chin in her hands as she looked out the window over the coffee plants to the rolling hills beyond. She’d been home three months and had not found either her father or her brothers. Her mother was living with the spirits, hardly aware of what was going on around her, and often went out at night to sit in the graveyard and talk to her friends, the dead, whom she swore were better company than anyone else she knew. Winsome was exhausted from the search, from not knowing what to do next, from having to look after her mother and not shout at her to take some responsibility. Never had she felt so alone. Absolom and Martha were still there, living in their hut out the back, but they had aged in the time she’d been away, and spent their evenings quietly under the mango tree listening to their radio, occasionally sharing a thought or their response to some news item, but mainly just sitting. She saw them now, gazing into the distance in their companionable silence, and wished she could share their contentment.

She took up her pen again.
‘Things are not so good here. Ma continues to roam, and no-one can get through to her. I think if she were in your country, she would have been confined to a Psychiatric hospital and given medication, but that is not he way of things in Uganda. Here, were keep our family at home when they are unwell, and we try to look after them as best we can. I think that this is a good idea because when they are ill, people should be with the people who love them.’
She stopped again. Would Dominic take offence at that? He had to put Angela in a hospital when she was ill – if he didn’t, the Police did, so surely it was kinder for him to do it than for her to be manhandled by strangers? But did she really think that he should stay at home and look after her? She wasn’t sure; she’d have to give it more thought, but in the meantime, she carried on.
‘But unfortunately, sometimes those very loving family members can feel quite unloving, angry, even, and then perhaps it would be good for everyone concerned if there was a hospital nearby. Perhaps if she was given medicine she would stop talking to ghosts, stay in at night, keep safe; but she likes talking to the spirits of her dead friends, so would it not be cruel to stop it? There is no answer, and no alternative anyway, as the hospitals have hardly any staff and no medicines these days. Mangeni, who works in our local hospital as a nurse, says that so many people are dying of AIDS – which we here call Slim because that is what it does to you – and there is nothing to give them. It is easy to hate a government that has turned its back on its own people.’
She stopped writing again and read back through what she’d written. If paper wasn’t so scarce she’d tear it up and start again. She didn’t mean to depress Dominic. His letters were always full of funny stories and local news. It was just unfortunate that her local news was of war and despair. And absence.
‘I think I may have a new lead on where Abraham and Solomon might be,’ she wrote. ‘A few days ago, some resistance fighters came through here, an one of them told me he’d heard of twins fighting in one of the coys further north. Of course, there are probably many twins fighting, but each time I hear of some, I hope it is them, and it gives me hope that they are still alive, because no-one would bother saying there are twins fighting if there was only one, would they?’
Once again, Winsome laid down her pen and sighed. It seemed her whole family was playing some sort of hideous disappearing act.


If you have read the book, you may recognise the characters. If not, why not zip over to Amazon and get yourself a copy and see if you prefer the way it is now or whether you would have preferred the letters!


Where does time go?


It’s been five months since my last post. I have been away for three months, and busy with other things, but they’re not really excuses. I was in Europe, not the Sumatran jungle – the internet was freely available. And the ‘other things’ I’ve been busy with? Procrastinations, distractions.

So I ask myself, why, when I have a reminder in my phone that alerts me every Thursday that today is the day to write a blog post, do I still not write one? The little message that comes up on my screen…Write a blog post…sets off a series of emotions from exasperation to guilt.

But most of all, it begs the question, What shall I write about? Why would anyone be interested in me and my ramblings? Have I got anything to add to the mounds of information out there on writing? (Just in case you’re interested in my advice, it can be summed up in one word: read. It hardly makes for a riveting post).

Then I thought, I write. It’s what I love doing. I make up characters and put them in situations and things happen. Sometimes I know what they’ll do and sometimes they surprise me, but they always do something, and those somethings add up to a story, (eventually, hopefully). When I’m developing a character, I often spend quite a bit of time writing their story, bits of dialogue, loves and hates and so on. Jottings that never get into the book, but are important to me to draw on as I write. So, for example, if a character suddenly says she loves men with back hair, and I know that her love interest suffers from Alopecia Totalis, I can correct her. Or rewrite her love interest to include chest wigs and such.

So, post-atrophy may be solved. I will share with you some of these character backgrounds.

Next time…


On Feedback


I belong to a fantastic Writers Group. It grew slowly, from small beginnings (two of us used to sit in a tiny room at the New South Wales Writer’s Centre every week for three hours, critiquing each other’s work and talking about writing). Over the years, people have come and gone, either because of their other commitments, or because they weren’t the right ‘fit’ for the group, or us for them.

Now we are nine, and have a level of trust and respect for each other and the work that we share that allows us to be honest without being unkind, and celebrate each others’ successes without envy. It is a rare thing.

I often come away from the group with plenty to work on. In fact, the days I come away with little in the form of feedback to work with, I feel cheated! I know that my Writers group makes me a better writer, and my books a better read.

And then there are the unknown critics. I recently sent one of my manuscripts in to an agent. They way this agency works is that they send a MS out to a panel of Readers for feedback. They ask them a series of questions to consider while they read, from whether it’s even worth reading, to marketablilty and everything in between.

I waited with bated breath for six weeks (which, I have to say, isn’t long in this industry!) and then came the phone call. I had pen and paper at the ready, and wrote copious notes. Much of the feedback was positive, which was nice to hear, but I was more interested, as always, in what they thought needed changing, tightening, removing. I agreed with most of it immediately, and will think about the rest of it over the next few days.

But what humbled me was the fact that these people had taken the time to read my book paying attention to tiny detail as well as story arc and character development, and then spent even more time writing notes for me. Helpful comments. Suggestions. Questions. I don’t know who any of these people are, but I thank them a thousand times over.

And so to the next edit.